How to Learn
Scenario: "Dude, we gotta read books. Oh-yeah!" But what happens when most of us read books? Instead of learning really anything, we're confirming our preexisting beliefs.
- If we agree with: __________, then it's-all-goood.
- If we disagree with: __________, then we ignore it as drivel.
If you really want to be one-smart-sucka, start challenging your views.
Why Political Debates Go Nowhere
It goes a little something like this:
- Wally Wa: "Big companies exploit the average American!"
- Sally Su: "No hippie! Big companies provide people jobs."
- Wally Wa: "No greedy @^^%! Corporate executives are money-grubbing hawks."
- Sally Su: "Look @^^%. Corporate executive compensation provide motivation."
- Wally Wa: "You suck!"
- Sally Su: "No, you suck!"
Somehow we all grew up adopting: "I'm always right, everyday, all day, all-the-time. Yay!" Instead of listening intently to contrary opinions, we shut it off as "Blah!" Instead of learning, we lounge back and think we're kings of the mutha-@^^%^&-jungle. Our learning capacity levels flat-line. Take it from Wharton professors:
"I know everything!"
People tend to confuse their familiarity with a topic with true expertise about it."I'm a Greek God."
They frequently overestimate their skills and knowledge compared with those of their peers."Oh, I just know it."
In the calibration studies, people got in trouble when they moved out of their domain of expertise: the accuracy of their decisions fell while their confidence stayed high."Yes, I remember."
People also have a strong bias to think that anything they remember is true even when they've forgotten the source of their information. A little knowledge can be a dangerous thing.
If you want to be a learning badass, challenge everything you know.
How to Learn
Exercise time! Yay! Hooray! Say you strongly believe: __________________.
- Write that sucka down.
- What's the opposing view? __________________.
- List 10 things that strongly support the opposing view.
- Congratulations. You just boosted your learning juice, drastically.
That exercise scares most people because they think: "Hey, if I take the opposing view, then my entire mindset will change for the worse. Ahh!" On the contrary: doing that exercise opens your fabulous brain up by inserting new information to form your decisions. That makes your decisions more objective, and as a result: much more effective.
How Can I Challenge My Beliefs in Other Ways?
In addition to challenging your assumptions about your super-biases, you can also challenge it if you're becoming too pessimistic for your own taste. For instance, these inner phrases might destruct your buisness:
- "I'm not a good seller."
- "I'm a lousy manager."
- "My customers don't like me."
- "I can't possibly help my employees."
- "I can't negotiate at all."
Start challenging your badass with 10 opposing reasons for each belief. Do a list. Write the suckas down. You'll start learning about yo-kickbooty-self-like-krazy. Word.
Challenge yo-self.
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Posted on January 12